Oh Chris Brown. Recently Mr. Brown took to instagram to give verbal recognition to Tamar Braxton and Adrienne Bailon in regards to very truthful and non-threatening statements they made on their Fox show, The Real, in regards to his relationship with his significant other.
In a segment on relationships, Tamar commented, "We have got to pull an inter-friend-tion with my girl Karrueche...I don’t know about this back and forth she got going on with my man, Chris Brown."
Adrienne Bailon chimed in later, saying, "Some of her friends may also reap the benefits of her dating Chris Brown."
The women did not by any chance make a personal attack on or even bring details of the happenings of Chris Brown's relationship, but he decided to take to instagram and respond:
"BRING THAT ASS HERE BOY" ADRIENNE BAILON.... You ole trout mouth ass b----. U tried it. Won't u the same b---- that was f----ing wit married men? U also was keeping up with the Kardashians! U can't talk about relationship goals when u don't even have life goals. Ain't you a cheetah girl? Last time u was important n----- was riding spinners and wearing 6x talk Ts. You the same b---- having threesomes like the rest of these h---. U tried it too Tamara Braxton. U take the role of the ugly sister. It's always the people wit no career that talk all the shit. Dat plastic surgery fucked yo face up. B---- look like she always saying "huh"? Muppet face a--! #basicb----problems #thotiannas I don’t even need a photo for Tamar, that b---- is beat in every photo! #icanmakeabrokeb----richbutidontf---witbrokeb----es."
The main point: This is not a reflection of love and there's no way someone in a relationship with a BEing that would speak such darkness against others, could be receiving nurturing love.
The lesson: In order to honor your spirit, you must choose to surround yourself with others who do the same.
When you are around people who intentionally attack, belittle, verbally, physically or emotionally abuse others, you allow your spirit to be susceptible to that energy. My grandfather has always told me, it's not always about how someone treats you, but pay attention to how they treat others because if it's negative, your day just hasn't came yet. This may not always be the truth, but it holds fast.
Be mindful of who you surround yourself with, but even more importantly, who you are intimate with. Someone that does not see the value in others or in themselves, will sure enough disrespect and dishonor you in more ways than one.
Written by: Tiffany W,